In an ideal world, people make love to their lovers. And we live in the real world, where natural instincts do not care that someone did not have a chance to meet great and pure love. Is it necessary to become old maids because of this? In no case! Prolonged lack of sex is fraught with many negative consequences and is bad for emotional health. Getting into a serious relationship with an unloved person just for the sake of sex is also stupid. Fortunately, in our imperfect world, there is sex without obligation. Yes, yes, you can appeal to moral bonds, throw rotten tomatoes at me. It won't change the fact that everyone wants sex. Even saints.
Perhaps the most difficult thing about sex without commitment is trying to find the right man. There are more than enough willing ones, but not all are suitable for the role of a friend.+ Many girls are looking for partners on a dating site. I would not advise doing this, because the contingent there is desperate and not always adequate. It is better to look for a candidate for this position among acquaintances, avoiding three dangerous categories: work colleagues, family men and your ex-boyfriends. Sex with a colleague will sooner or later have a bad effect on working relationships, family men will whine about your wives (supposedly bitches), and ex-boyfriends at some point decide to restore their previous serious relationship. You should also avoid guys who, on the first date, begin to be touched by the children of others. These are just looking for a woman to give birth to their child. Mentally prepare for the fact that the search for the right partner will take time. It happens that we are unbearably lonely and just want to feel the warmth of the human body next to us. This feeling is especially aggravated on February 13, when everyone is in a hurry to look for a couple, in a desperate attempt to get at least an imitation of love. Avoid sex out of desperation, it will not make you happy and is unlikely to end in an orgasm. Because you will always remember that you were pushed into sex by a feeling of loneliness.